VICTIMS GOES TO GRAVE.

                                                              

So, I heard that you're falling into that victim mindset again. I heard that you are sitting in your bed all day and feeling sorry for yourself like "oh my god life is too unfair for me" honey no one cares. Nobody is coming to save you. So in this blog I am going to tell you everything to snap out of that mindset.

1. REALISE THAT LIFE IS AN IMAGINATION.

I am going to tell you something RN that is gonna change your Consciousness forever and it is gonna change the way you look at life. So be ready. I am gonna take an example of pen if possible take a pen in your hand thank you. Now this pen over here someone has to imagine this pen in their head, in order to put it into the Physical Realm. So this pen is an imagination of someone, to exist. You going to your school. Your school is an imagination of the school's founder. He imagined a place where kids can come and study IK this is a very old concept but your school's founder imagined that specific school that specific place and that specific building and a specific name that he wanted to create and then he put it into the Physical Realm. So you're basically going every day into your school founders imagination.

Countries, countries are not real. We all imagine, (collectively) a border that's not there. It's just earth. Okay everything's Earth but we imagine that those countries are separated. Money: we imagine that paper or the amount you have in your bank, is worth that much. But it isn't. And if tomorrow a big Corporation Bank says that: hey whatever money you have RN is worth nothing thank you. Then it's not. So basically everything we have in life is just an imagination. That mean's we are living in a dream, that means that we're living in a imagination and that means we're living in whatever you wanna call it a matrix, a game, whatever. Now bare with me, the people in your life. Let's say for example in my life, my brother okay. Who is my brother? The only person IK as my brother is my perception of him. Is the character I created of him in my reality. But if I ask my mother, hey mom who is my brother? and She will give me a complete different answer because in my mother's reality she created a different version of my brother. The same way you have a relationship right and you think: "I am going to marry this person" but 1 day the person does something to you, they cheat or whatever and you're completely like shocked and you say that you're "heart broken". You're not heart broken honey your ego broken. your ego had imagined something: you imagined that you had a future with that person, but it was not reality. Because honey the only thing that is promised in life is that we will die. But other than that nothing is promised. Because you can never know, never, even your own mother, you will never know how they will act. We basically imagine everything we do. We imagine our future we dwell in the past (which also does not exist) future, past does not exist. The only thing which exist RN is present which we are living. Only this moment is what we have so if we start to realize that wait a minute, we're kind of crazy. We live our whole life imagining stuff and thinking that it will happen a certain way and then it doesn't. What can we do with that?

2. WE CAN REALIZE THAT WE ARE THE CREATOR OF OUR OWN LIFE.

We can realize that we can create this dream or this imagination, however we want it to be. Right now if you decide: I'll never read Yasha's blog again, you can never read my blogs again (please read it, it was just an example :3). And I will not exist in your imagination anymore. Same way if you choose to walk away from a toxic person, toxic friend or even abusive household... these people dont exist in your imagination anymore and in fact you will create a whole different reality for yourself and a whole different dream. Because now you will meet other people new character in your imagination.

3. ASK YOURSELF FEW QUESTIONS.

How I want to create my game, my dream? How I want my imagination to look like? Who do I allow in my imagination? How do I behave? Who am I? What does my character look like?

4. BEING A VICTIM MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE.

See being a victim is the most comfortable thing there is, because you dont have to do much. You know what your life is? O this is your life, a circle, everything keeps moving the same way, in the same circle. But this is comfortable for you. YK why? YK what is going to happen in the circle, YK everything you dont have to take risks. You dont have to deal with different people, okay, your partner is abusive or toxic, but at least you know them and at least you know what they are gonna do.

5. EVERYONE WANTS TO BLAME.

Change your life and stop blaming other. Because NO ONE IS INTERESTED IN IT. Harsh but a known fact. No one gives a damn F about your problems because they are busy in dealing with their own. Honey please stop sharing your problems because for a moment that person will give you sympathy like "omg, that's so bad" and what next? Nothing they will move on but you will be there with your problems and trauma. Stop blaming other because of your situation because they did what they had to and now you have to do something to change that and actually be someone who did something. This takes guts YK I am saying from my own perspective that everyone wants to blame everyone. You want to blame your trauma, you want to blame society, you want to blame capitalism, you want to blame patriarchy and what not. At the end you'll be left no one to blame but yourself. Your life is SHIT because of YOU.

I am not even lying I used to cry my eyes on the things I cant have on the people I cant have and how that made MY life SHIT and blah blah. You think that anyone cared? No. You know when they care? When you get out of it. When your life becomes a success story. David Goggins is not David Goggins without his success. No one would care if he was still the same guy as before. They would be like "whatever dude just shut up everyone has problems" But now he's an inspiration because he turned his life around.

6. KNOW YOUR GOD DAMN WORTH.

"What is it in me that, I dont feel worthy enough or having people that actually respect me?" Notice what part you're playing in your life. You can cry all day about: oh I'm over weight or oh I'm too skinny are you actually doing something to fix that or you're just crying all day over the fact that you are not perfect. If you feel sad over the fact that you are too ugly then do something about your face. If you open something and see something that made you mad then dont blame the creator of it blame yourself for opening that. Trust me you wont get stressed out when you know that actually its your fault and if you're being angry then it's your weakness honey. Ask yourself what am I doing in order to fix my life? I wake up and what do you do? Do you go on social media and scroll? That is what you do? And then you will be like oh my life is shit society is bad. No, like honestly you're not good enough.

Hey you'll thank you for reading this till here IK the last part was a bit harsh. I am genuinely sorry if you felt bad but it's the truth and you are going to fix that because no one is going to come and fix you.

I hope that you loved it and learned a thing or two. If you liked it then please comment what you liked or tell me if I'm wrong I would love to learn more and follow my blog page please it makes me happy kind of so yeah that's about it hope to see you soon with next blog.

 

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